父母低头行为对儿童青少年心理发展的影响

doi:10.16187/j.cnki.issn1001-4918.2021.01.17

摘要/Abstract

摘要： 父母低头行为是指父母照顾或与孩子交流时，过分关注与使用手机而忽视孩子的行为。梳理相关研究发现，父母低头行为会对孩子产生多种不良影响，如，降低亲子关系交流质量、增加意外伤害风险、损伤人际交往能力、导致问题行为增多。现有研究采用取代假说、多任务操作理论以及依恋理论对影响过程进行解释。未来研究的关键在于邻近概念的区分、测量方式和研究方法的改进、探讨儿童对父母手机使用行为的看法以及移动设备对亲子互动可能的积极影响。

关键词: 父母低头行为, 亲子关系, 取代假说, 多任务操作, 依恋理论

Abstract: Parents phubbing is the behavior that parents pay much attention on smartphones while taking care of their children or communicating with them. By reviewing the relevant studies, it is found that parental phubbing has a variety of adverse effects on their children, such as reducing the quality of parent-child relationship, increasing the risk of accidental injury, impairing interpersonal skills, and increasing problem behaviors. Previous studies mainly use the displacement hypothesis, the theory of multitasking, and the attachment theory to explain these effects. In the future research, we should distinguish neighborhood concepts, improve measurement methods and research methods, explore children's perceptions of parents phubbing, and examine the possible positive impact of mobile devices on parent-child interaction.

Key words: parental phubbing, parent-child relationship, the displacement hypothesis, multitasking, attachment theory

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B844

姜倩云, 王兴超, 刘兵, 王鹏程, 雷雳. 父母低头行为对儿童青少年心理发展的影响[J]. 心理发展与教育, 2021, 37(1): 137-145.

JIANG Qianyun, WANG Xingchao, LIU Bing, WANG Pengcheng, LEI Li. The Impact of Parental Phubbing on the Psychological Development of Children and Adolescents[J]. Psychological Development and Education, 2021, 37(1): 137-145.

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