亲关系动机对家庭消费决策及婚姻满意度的影响

doi:10.16187/j.cnki.issn1001-4918.2023.03.06

摘要/Abstract

摘要： 为探讨亲关系动机对家庭消费决策及婚姻满意度的影响,通过两项研究分别在单独决策和共同决策情境下,采用家庭消费决策任务、亲关系动机量表、婚姻调适测定问卷对118名个体被试(研究1)和94对夫妻被试(研究2)进行考察,结果发现:(1)当个体单独进行家庭消费决策时,亲关系动机越高,理性程度越低,而婚姻满意度越高;(2)当夫妻共同进行家庭消费决策时,不同亲关系动机组合下的夫妻理性程度无显著差异,而整体婚姻满意度差异显著,具体表现为夫妻二人亲关系动机“同高”组合下的整体婚姻满意度显著高于“同低”组合和“混合”组合,后两者之间无显著差异。此外,结果还发现亲关系动机与年龄、婚龄、子女情况、受教育程度和收入均有关。本研究表明,亲关系动机虽有利于提高婚姻满意度,但在个体单独决策时易引发非理性消费,强调了互动沟通在家庭消费决策中的重要性。

关键词: 亲关系动机, 家庭消费决策, 理性程度, 婚姻满意度, 共同决策

Abstract: Two studies are carried out to explore the influence of prorelationship motivation on family consumption decision and marital satisfaction. In Study 1, 118 individuals completed an individual decision making task about family consumption, the prorelationship motivation scale and the marital adjustment test. It was found that individual’s prorelationship motivation can negatively predict the rationality of family consumption decision, and positively predict marital satisfaction. In Study 2, the same tools were adopted to test 94 couples under the couple joint decision making situation. According to the mean of prorelationship motivation, couples were divided into three dyad types: homogeneous high prorelationship motivation couples, mixed prorelationship motivation couples and homogeneous low prorelationship motivation couples. It was found that when couples can interact with each other in decision making, there was no significant difference in the rationality of family consumption decision among three dyad types. However, the entire marital satisfaction of homogeneous high prorelationship motivation couples was significantly higher than the other two dyad types, but there is no significant difference between the other two types. In addition, it was also found that prorelationship motivation is correlated with age, marriageable age, children situation, education and income. The results above indicate the importance of interaction and communication in family consumption decision. Moreover, taken together, this research suggests that people had better cultivate prorelationship motivation in their marriage.

Key words: prorelationship motivation, family consumption decision, rationality, marital satisfaction, joint decision making

中图分类号:

B844

李越, 辛自强, 兰艺华. 亲关系动机对家庭消费决策及婚姻满意度的影响[J]. 心理发展与教育, 2023, 39(3): 350-359.

LI Yue, XIN Ziqiang, LAN Yihua. The Influence of Prorelationship Motivation on Family Consumption Decision and Marital Satisfaction[J]. Psychological Development and Education, 2023, 39(3): 350-359.

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